WTF is this carp? You people run a real dj -- pimpin -- off the board for, what, supposedly posting "fake" stories (what evidence did anyone ever bring?) but you tolerate totally irrelevant blather like this? Lol.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Why are you sticking up for these losers who have been banned, all you do is fvcking complain and attack every other dude who is against these people.danielzxc said:So now I'M a troll? Lol. That accusation seems to be last refuge of a scoundrel! (I wonder what conclusion a careful comparison of our respective posts would suggest; am I the more likely troll or would that be yourself?)
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Do you expect to marry a virgin ages 30-40?Last Man Standing said:d99, Yes, some women have been abused and raped in their childhood and this creates a monster - I don't blame the woman for such atrocities -- the men should be put to death who abuse children!!! Society is "messed up" and it is encouraged and worsened by those who control the media and it's messages and content!! There is a sick agenda here!! I blame my generation who created this mess!!! We are the original monsters!!
Does anybody else have questions that they need to be answered?
No, I absolutely do not expect to marry a virgin that old -- there are none!! My ideal would be to marry a woman who has not been sexually blemished!! At this point I will not get married because I do not want to bring children into this world as it is..most women want children and I understand why....I wanted children at one time too but not now!Babnik said:Do you expect to marry a virgin ages 30-40?
Define blemished in your own terms, please.Last Man Standing said:No, I absolutely do not expect to marry a virgin that old -- there are none!! My ideal would be to marry a woman who has not been sexually blemished!! At this point I will not get married because I do not want to bring children into this world as it is..most women want children and I understand why....I wanted children at one time too but not now!
So my fate is sealed as I am now - I have no problem with my station in life - I am quite satisfied with my life! I could actually find one in another country and it will be an easy task but I must know a woman totally before I trust her and I could not do that with someone thousands of miles away!
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Whoa, hold on their kid - that is a pretty deep analysis and I've been drinking!DJF or John said:Hey PRL, here's my question.
Could you make a post, talking about what you were saying a while back about Sexuality, the Duel that creates Life or something?
I want to hear that.
Let me know when you'll make it, because I need to have a cold beer ready.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Last Man Standing said:No blemishes sexually = no sexual contact with another person!!
When a woman comes into sexual contact with a man it not only changes her physical status as a woman but it also alters her mind and changes her mindset - how she thinks!
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.