WTF is this carp? You people run a real dj -- pimpin -- off the board for, what, supposedly posting "fake" stories (what evidence did anyone ever bring?) but you tolerate totally irrelevant blather like this? Lol.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Why are you sticking up for these losers who have been banned, all you do is fvcking complain and attack every other dude who is against these people.danielzxc said:So now I'M a troll? Lol. That accusation seems to be last refuge of a scoundrel! (I wonder what conclusion a careful comparison of our respective posts would suggest; am I the more likely troll or would that be yourself?)
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Do you expect to marry a virgin ages 30-40?Last Man Standing said:d99, Yes, some women have been abused and raped in their childhood and this creates a monster - I don't blame the woman for such atrocities -- the men should be put to death who abuse children!!! Society is "messed up" and it is encouraged and worsened by those who control the media and it's messages and content!! There is a sick agenda here!! I blame my generation who created this mess!!! We are the original monsters!!
Does anybody else have questions that they need to be answered?
No, I absolutely do not expect to marry a virgin that old -- there are none!! My ideal would be to marry a woman who has not been sexually blemished!! At this point I will not get married because I do not want to bring children into this world as it is..most women want children and I understand why....I wanted children at one time too but not now!Babnik said:Do you expect to marry a virgin ages 30-40?
Define blemished in your own terms, please.Last Man Standing said:No, I absolutely do not expect to marry a virgin that old -- there are none!! My ideal would be to marry a woman who has not been sexually blemished!! At this point I will not get married because I do not want to bring children into this world as it is..most women want children and I understand why....I wanted children at one time too but not now!
So my fate is sealed as I am now - I have no problem with my station in life - I am quite satisfied with my life! I could actually find one in another country and it will be an easy task but I must know a woman totally before I trust her and I could not do that with someone thousands of miles away!
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Whoa, hold on their kid - that is a pretty deep analysis and I've been drinking!DJF or John said:Hey PRL, here's my question.
Could you make a post, talking about what you were saying a while back about Sexuality, the Duel that creates Life or something?
I want to hear that.
Let me know when you'll make it, because I need to have a cold beer ready.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Last Man Standing said:No blemishes sexually = no sexual contact with another person!!
When a woman comes into sexual contact with a man it not only changes her physical status as a woman but it also alters her mind and changes her mindset - how she thinks!
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.