WTF is this carp? You people run a real dj -- pimpin -- off the board for, what, supposedly posting "fake" stories (what evidence did anyone ever bring?) but you tolerate totally irrelevant blather like this? Lol.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Why are you sticking up for these losers who have been banned, all you do is fvcking complain and attack every other dude who is against these people.danielzxc said:So now I'M a troll? Lol. That accusation seems to be last refuge of a scoundrel! (I wonder what conclusion a careful comparison of our respective posts would suggest; am I the more likely troll or would that be yourself?)
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Do you expect to marry a virgin ages 30-40?Last Man Standing said:d99, Yes, some women have been abused and raped in their childhood and this creates a monster - I don't blame the woman for such atrocities -- the men should be put to death who abuse children!!! Society is "messed up" and it is encouraged and worsened by those who control the media and it's messages and content!! There is a sick agenda here!! I blame my generation who created this mess!!! We are the original monsters!!
Does anybody else have questions that they need to be answered?
No, I absolutely do not expect to marry a virgin that old -- there are none!! My ideal would be to marry a woman who has not been sexually blemished!! At this point I will not get married because I do not want to bring children into this world as it is..most women want children and I understand why....I wanted children at one time too but not now!Babnik said:Do you expect to marry a virgin ages 30-40?
Define blemished in your own terms, please.Last Man Standing said:No, I absolutely do not expect to marry a virgin that old -- there are none!! My ideal would be to marry a woman who has not been sexually blemished!! At this point I will not get married because I do not want to bring children into this world as it is..most women want children and I understand why....I wanted children at one time too but not now!
So my fate is sealed as I am now - I have no problem with my station in life - I am quite satisfied with my life! I could actually find one in another country and it will be an easy task but I must know a woman totally before I trust her and I could not do that with someone thousands of miles away!
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Whoa, hold on their kid - that is a pretty deep analysis and I've been drinking!DJF or John said:Hey PRL, here's my question.
Could you make a post, talking about what you were saying a while back about Sexuality, the Duel that creates Life or something?
I want to hear that.
Let me know when you'll make it, because I need to have a cold beer ready.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Last Man Standing said:No blemishes sexually = no sexual contact with another person!!
When a woman comes into sexual contact with a man it not only changes her physical status as a woman but it also alters her mind and changes her mindset - how she thinks!
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.