Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
The justifications for not understanding how to sarge the net are pathetic.SinRod said:I seen all these posts on here about guys who want to know if they should go on the computer and cant find a date yall be men and find a ***** on the street or in the clubs ok?guys who internet date are pathetic!
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
So women in cities are not interested in dating a suave, charming gentleman?you must not live in a city..women in cities, cold approaching is a no go
Ok, thanks. I'm out.SinRod said:get off the internet and start dating like real man NOW!
baller1985 said:how is it not manly to hit up myspace, get 10 phone #s from girls there within a few days, and then call them all up and set up 5 dates for Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, SAturday, and Sunday???
Cuz the guy who does that will be possibly ****ing 5 different girls in 5 days LIKE A REAL MAN
and YOU will be cold approaching chasing women who arent interested in being approached and not gettin any!!
KEEP THIS IN MIND:
YOU DONT KNOW IF A RANDOM WOMAN ON THE STREET IS OPEN TO BE APPROACHED. She may be having a bad day, have a bf, be gay, be an uninterested feminist, be depressed, just had a family member die, just got fired from her job, ect ect ect
ONLINE however, the women that say they are single and have profiles up, are OPEN to being talked to, and that is 100% accurate.
Sinrod, your a Nimrod
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
hey look buddy don't listen to these guys their really dumb when it comes to dating on the internet. You don't have no confidence cause that's what you think. trust me it is all in your mind. you can do it. Just don't be takinf advise from baller and them guys because all you will end up with is lonelyness and a semen-stained computer chair. just ask baller, he tells you.Willis said:Cant, no Confidence or self-esteem
Umm... It's "they're".SinRod said:...their really dumb...
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.