This is a question that I've pondered for quite some time, even before I started visiting this site and getting interested in self-improvement. To just what degree are we defined by our genetics, and to what extent do we have the power to transform ourselves? Where does one draw the line between a realistic goal for self-improvement and an unrealistic one based on that?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Genetics limiting potential?
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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
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ConantheLibertarian
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Keep testing the water and find out where the line is 
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Foggy said:
the question is do u ponder over something u can't change, or make teh best out of what u have and improve urself teh best u can..
do u really have an option, does this question matter outside of a scientic class ?
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for some reason some people cannot accept reality.
YES... its un realistic for some short Asian kid getting a tall blonde chick... it can happen... IF the girl was willing to "accept you for who you are"... but face it... its NOT going to happen.
face it... some people have standards that they can't live up to... it just is...
conan is right... keep testing the waters and find the line...
YES... its un realistic for some short Asian kid getting a tall blonde chick... it can happen... IF the girl was willing to "accept you for who you are"... but face it... its NOT going to happen.
face it... some people have standards that they can't live up to... it just is...
conan is right... keep testing the waters and find the line...
Moofahsa
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I'll throw my 2 cents in here-
I'm a genetic freak, I'm 6'9" barefoot. Sometimes its awesome, other times it sucks.
Just be content with what you have, you can't change your bonestructure or skin color...
I might have been a bad ass in the stoneage, able to do battle with longer spears or something (LOL)
If your short, you won't be picking up tall hotty blondes
If your tall you won't be able to pick up those fine lookin petite asians.
I'm a genetic freak, I'm 6'9" barefoot. Sometimes its awesome, other times it sucks.
Just be content with what you have, you can't change your bonestructure or skin color...
I might have been a bad ass in the stoneage, able to do battle with longer spears or something (LOL)
If your short, you won't be picking up tall hotty blondes
If your tall you won't be able to pick up those fine lookin petite asians.
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Snow Plowman
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Huge limiting beliefs
Everyone is capable of doing what the next man can do pickup wise. Saying a short kid can't get a tall girl is irrational and dumb because all those superfical excuses we come up with don't matter one bit.
I personally have a friend who is 5'4 that had a 6'2 girl all over him. I don't know 100% if he pulled or not but it is what it is.
The sky is the limit when it comes to this game. Everyone can get good to the point of having multiple women, 3somes, lays on first day, etc. It all just takes practice.
Everyone is capable of doing what the next man can do pickup wise. Saying a short kid can't get a tall girl is irrational and dumb because all those superfical excuses we come up with don't matter one bit.
I personally have a friend who is 5'4 that had a 6'2 girl all over him. I don't know 100% if he pulled or not but it is what it is.
The sky is the limit when it comes to this game. Everyone can get good to the point of having multiple women, 3somes, lays on first day, etc. It all just takes practice.