This is a question that I've pondered for quite some time, even before I started visiting this site and getting interested in self-improvement. To just what degree are we defined by our genetics, and to what extent do we have the power to transform ourselves? Where does one draw the line between a realistic goal for self-improvement and an unrealistic one based on that?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Genetics limiting potential?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
ConantheLibertarian
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Keep testing the water and find out where the line is 
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.KneghtRyder
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Foggy said:
the question is do u ponder over something u can't change, or make teh best out of what u have and improve urself teh best u can..
do u really have an option, does this question matter outside of a scientic class ?
Michele l'Arcangelo
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for some reason some people cannot accept reality.
YES... its un realistic for some short Asian kid getting a tall blonde chick... it can happen... IF the girl was willing to "accept you for who you are"... but face it... its NOT going to happen.
face it... some people have standards that they can't live up to... it just is...
conan is right... keep testing the waters and find the line...
YES... its un realistic for some short Asian kid getting a tall blonde chick... it can happen... IF the girl was willing to "accept you for who you are"... but face it... its NOT going to happen.
face it... some people have standards that they can't live up to... it just is...
conan is right... keep testing the waters and find the line...
Moofahsa
Senior Don Juan
I'll throw my 2 cents in here-
I'm a genetic freak, I'm 6'9" barefoot. Sometimes its awesome, other times it sucks.
Just be content with what you have, you can't change your bonestructure or skin color...
I might have been a bad ass in the stoneage, able to do battle with longer spears or something (LOL)
If your short, you won't be picking up tall hotty blondes
If your tall you won't be able to pick up those fine lookin petite asians.
I'm a genetic freak, I'm 6'9" barefoot. Sometimes its awesome, other times it sucks.
Just be content with what you have, you can't change your bonestructure or skin color...
I might have been a bad ass in the stoneage, able to do battle with longer spears or something (LOL)
If your short, you won't be picking up tall hotty blondes
If your tall you won't be able to pick up those fine lookin petite asians.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
Huge limiting beliefs
Everyone is capable of doing what the next man can do pickup wise. Saying a short kid can't get a tall girl is irrational and dumb because all those superfical excuses we come up with don't matter one bit.
I personally have a friend who is 5'4 that had a 6'2 girl all over him. I don't know 100% if he pulled or not but it is what it is.
The sky is the limit when it comes to this game. Everyone can get good to the point of having multiple women, 3somes, lays on first day, etc. It all just takes practice.
Everyone is capable of doing what the next man can do pickup wise. Saying a short kid can't get a tall girl is irrational and dumb because all those superfical excuses we come up with don't matter one bit.
I personally have a friend who is 5'4 that had a 6'2 girl all over him. I don't know 100% if he pulled or not but it is what it is.
The sky is the limit when it comes to this game. Everyone can get good to the point of having multiple women, 3somes, lays on first day, etc. It all just takes practice.