I know girls who say and are being honest..that they can't really be trusted once they have a certain amount of liquor even if they love the person. Personally, if i love a girl (which i do) i can drink all i want and not cheat on her and control myself. But she admits to not being able to be trusted if she drinks soo much..is this b.s. or what? What would you say to someone like this?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
General question about girls and alcohal
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Straight from my DUI instructors mouth and the awnser to question #3 on my exam
What's the first thing to go after you're intoxicated?
...judgement.
So if she can't keep her head while drinking she should ether A cut back on drinking or B Have a really big ugly g/f chaperrone her when you're not around.
Anything else is a car wreck waiting to happen...I mean an act of unfaithfulness waiting to happen, my bad.
What's the first thing to go after you're intoxicated?
...judgement.
So if she can't keep her head while drinking she should ether A cut back on drinking or B Have a really big ugly g/f chaperrone her when you're not around.
Anything else is a car wreck waiting to happen...I mean an act of unfaithfulness waiting to happen, my bad.
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Maverick001
Senior Don Juan
Exactly. People will tell you precisely what their strengths and weaknesses are if you pay attention and listen intently. Don`t say she didn`t warn you.
Cheers,
Mav
Damian
Senior Don Juan
Even if you're drunk, you're still held responsible for what you do. You crash your car while drunk, you get a DUI and you have to pay/work it off. You kill somebody while drunk, you are pinned for second degree murder. You beat your wife when you're drunk, you are pinned with domestic violence. See the trend here? Just being drunk doesn't mean it's not your fault. Downing a mug doesn't release you from responsibility or culpability for your actions when you're intoxicated. If a girl uses alcohol as an excuse, or shimmies of responsiblity for what she did while drunk, you probably wouldn't want to marry her. She probably has issues of her own, and you don't want to be around that.
Well, addressing what your girlfriend told you. This is typical alcoholic/addiction behavior. She continues even in the face of circumstances, and refuses to take responsibility. I say dump her and go find somebody responsible that can take care of herself as well as you.
-Damian
Well, addressing what your girlfriend told you. This is typical alcoholic/addiction behavior. She continues even in the face of circumstances, and refuses to take responsibility. I say dump her and go find somebody responsible that can take care of herself as well as you.
-Damian
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.