"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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General question about girls and alcohal

shark

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I know girls who say and are being honest..that they can't really be trusted once they have a certain amount of liquor even if they love the person. Personally, if i love a girl (which i do) i can drink all i want and not cheat on her and control myself. But she admits to not being able to be trusted if she drinks soo much..is this b.s. or what? What would you say to someone like this?
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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Straight from my DUI instructors mouth and the awnser to question #3 on my exam

What's the first thing to go after you're intoxicated?

...judgement.

So if she can't keep her head while drinking she should ether A cut back on drinking or B Have a really big ugly g/f chaperrone her when you're not around.

Anything else is a car wreck waiting to happen...I mean an act of unfaithfulness waiting to happen, my bad.
 
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Hey, I have this same problem! Except it's not just alcohol for me. Drinking literally anything could make me cheat. :(
 

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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
I wouldn't become exclusive with a girl who tells me that. Down the line she would use that EXCUSE to cheat on you. "I told you so it wasn't my fault".


JC
Exactly. People will tell you precisely what their strengths and weaknesses are if you pay attention and listen intently. Don`t say she didn`t warn you.

Cheers,
Mav
 

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Even if you're drunk, you're still held responsible for what you do. You crash your car while drunk, you get a DUI and you have to pay/work it off. You kill somebody while drunk, you are pinned for second degree murder. You beat your wife when you're drunk, you are pinned with domestic violence. See the trend here? Just being drunk doesn't mean it's not your fault. Downing a mug doesn't release you from responsibility or culpability for your actions when you're intoxicated. If a girl uses alcohol as an excuse, or shimmies of responsiblity for what she did while drunk, you probably wouldn't want to marry her. She probably has issues of her own, and you don't want to be around that.

Well, addressing what your girlfriend told you. This is typical alcoholic/addiction behavior. She continues even in the face of circumstances, and refuses to take responsibility. I say dump her and go find somebody responsible that can take care of herself as well as you.

-Damian
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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