I know girls who say and are being honest..that they can't really be trusted once they have a certain amount of liquor even if they love the person. Personally, if i love a girl (which i do) i can drink all i want and not cheat on her and control myself. But she admits to not being able to be trusted if she drinks soo much..is this b.s. or what? What would you say to someone like this?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
General question about girls and alcohal
- Thread starter shark
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Straight from my DUI instructors mouth and the awnser to question #3 on my exam
What's the first thing to go after you're intoxicated?
...judgement.
So if she can't keep her head while drinking she should ether A cut back on drinking or B Have a really big ugly g/f chaperrone her when you're not around.
Anything else is a car wreck waiting to happen...I mean an act of unfaithfulness waiting to happen, my bad.
What's the first thing to go after you're intoxicated?
...judgement.
So if she can't keep her head while drinking she should ether A cut back on drinking or B Have a really big ugly g/f chaperrone her when you're not around.
Anything else is a car wreck waiting to happen...I mean an act of unfaithfulness waiting to happen, my bad.
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Maverick001
Senior Don Juan
Exactly. People will tell you precisely what their strengths and weaknesses are if you pay attention and listen intently. Don`t say she didn`t warn you.
Cheers,
Mav
Damian
Senior Don Juan
Even if you're drunk, you're still held responsible for what you do. You crash your car while drunk, you get a DUI and you have to pay/work it off. You kill somebody while drunk, you are pinned for second degree murder. You beat your wife when you're drunk, you are pinned with domestic violence. See the trend here? Just being drunk doesn't mean it's not your fault. Downing a mug doesn't release you from responsibility or culpability for your actions when you're intoxicated. If a girl uses alcohol as an excuse, or shimmies of responsiblity for what she did while drunk, you probably wouldn't want to marry her. She probably has issues of her own, and you don't want to be around that.
Well, addressing what your girlfriend told you. This is typical alcoholic/addiction behavior. She continues even in the face of circumstances, and refuses to take responsibility. I say dump her and go find somebody responsible that can take care of herself as well as you.
-Damian
Well, addressing what your girlfriend told you. This is typical alcoholic/addiction behavior. She continues even in the face of circumstances, and refuses to take responsibility. I say dump her and go find somebody responsible that can take care of herself as well as you.
-Damian
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.