"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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General question about girls and alcohal

shark

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I know girls who say and are being honest..that they can't really be trusted once they have a certain amount of liquor even if they love the person. Personally, if i love a girl (which i do) i can drink all i want and not cheat on her and control myself. But she admits to not being able to be trusted if she drinks soo much..is this b.s. or what? What would you say to someone like this?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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PRMoon

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Straight from my DUI instructors mouth and the awnser to question #3 on my exam

What's the first thing to go after you're intoxicated?

...judgement.

So if she can't keep her head while drinking she should ether A cut back on drinking or B Have a really big ugly g/f chaperrone her when you're not around.

Anything else is a car wreck waiting to happen...I mean an act of unfaithfulness waiting to happen, my bad.
 
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seanchai

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Hey, I have this same problem! Except it's not just alcohol for me. Drinking literally anything could make me cheat. :(
 

Maverick001

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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
I wouldn't become exclusive with a girl who tells me that. Down the line she would use that EXCUSE to cheat on you. "I told you so it wasn't my fault".


JC
Exactly. People will tell you precisely what their strengths and weaknesses are if you pay attention and listen intently. Don`t say she didn`t warn you.

Cheers,
Mav
 

Damian

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Even if you're drunk, you're still held responsible for what you do. You crash your car while drunk, you get a DUI and you have to pay/work it off. You kill somebody while drunk, you are pinned for second degree murder. You beat your wife when you're drunk, you are pinned with domestic violence. See the trend here? Just being drunk doesn't mean it's not your fault. Downing a mug doesn't release you from responsibility or culpability for your actions when you're intoxicated. If a girl uses alcohol as an excuse, or shimmies of responsiblity for what she did while drunk, you probably wouldn't want to marry her. She probably has issues of her own, and you don't want to be around that.

Well, addressing what your girlfriend told you. This is typical alcoholic/addiction behavior. She continues even in the face of circumstances, and refuses to take responsibility. I say dump her and go find somebody responsible that can take care of herself as well as you.

-Damian
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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