“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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SamTheHobit

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To all sosuave member. Please get a life, and stop asking stupid questions.

Thanx
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mantis Toboggan

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SamTheHobit said:
To all sosuave member. Please get a life, and stop asking stupid questions.

Thanx

You do, uh, see the irony in coming to a site you don't like to announce (on the site) that you dislike it, and that all the members should leave?

It's kind of like sitting in a McDonald's, eating a Big Mac, while telling everyone else that they suck for eating there.

Summary: If you hate the site so much, yet continue to post here, perhaps you're the one who should get a life.
 

JonJaper

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OP has a point if he is targeting people who ask Captain Obvious stupid questions that they could have answered themselves had they read the DJ Bible or useful posts/articles on this website.

Personally I'm here for the self-improvement and taking action by doing the Don Juan Bootcamp and keeping up a workout log in the Health and Fitness section... I'm not here to post stupid crap like "omg guys does she like me???" or "I've got oneitis, help!"
 
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SamTheHobit

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Mantis Toboggan said:
You do, uh, see the irony in coming to a site you don't like to announce (on the site) that you dislike it, and that all the members should leave?

It's kind of like sitting in a McDonald's, eating a Big Mac, while telling everyone else that they suck for eating there.

Summary: If you hate the site so much, yet continue to post here, perhaps you're the one who should get a life.
You're a moron. What a stupid post.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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SamTheHobit said:
You're a moron. What a stupid post.
You'll grow up.

I was annoying when I first came here when I was 16... my first 10 posts were stupid questions, and I used to get all mad when people rebuttaled me. Eventually I stopped caring and stopped posting. I usually come here only to read. I never log in unless I reply.

You got to understand, a lot of the people come here to just bounce ideas, even if they're common sense. Some people just don't have friends who are down to talk about this stuff. Some friends are competitive and want all attention from girls for themselves.

I do.

I'll be with my friends, super-analyzing ideas and theories and even though they are VERY common sense. I love knowing I solved the "puzzle", the "game". They just listen and bounce ideas back, even though I didn't really need them. Without feedback, it's hard to see an idea clearly.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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