SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
To all sosuave member. Please get a life, and stop asking stupid questions.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Mantis Toboggan
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SamTheHobit said:
You do, uh, see the irony in coming to a site you don't like to announce (on the site) that you dislike it, and that all the members should leave?
It's kind of like sitting in a McDonald's, eating a Big Mac, while telling everyone else that they suck for eating there.
Summary: If you hate the site so much, yet continue to post here, perhaps you're the one who should get a life.
OP has a point if he is targeting people who ask Captain Obvious stupid questions that they could have answered themselves had they read the DJ Bible or useful posts/articles on this website.
Personally I'm here for the self-improvement and taking action by doing the Don Juan Bootcamp and keeping up a workout log in the Health and Fitness section... I'm not here to post stupid crap like "omg guys does she like me???" or "I've got oneitis, help!"
Personally I'm here for the self-improvement and taking action by doing the Don Juan Bootcamp and keeping up a workout log in the Health and Fitness section... I'm not here to post stupid crap like "omg guys does she like me???" or "I've got oneitis, help!"
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SamTheHobit
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You're a moron. What a stupid post.Mantis Toboggan said:
Michele l'Arcangelo
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You'll grow up.SamTheHobit said:
I was annoying when I first came here when I was 16... my first 10 posts were stupid questions, and I used to get all mad when people rebuttaled me. Eventually I stopped caring and stopped posting. I usually come here only to read. I never log in unless I reply.
You got to understand, a lot of the people come here to just bounce ideas, even if they're common sense. Some people just don't have friends who are down to talk about this stuff. Some friends are competitive and want all attention from girls for themselves.
I do.
I'll be with my friends, super-analyzing ideas and theories and even though they are VERY common sense. I love knowing I solved the "puzzle", the "game". They just listen and bounce ideas back, even though I didn't really need them. Without feedback, it's hard to see an idea clearly.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.