"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SamTheHobit

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To all sosuave member. Please get a life, and stop asking stupid questions.

Thanx
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Mantis Toboggan

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SamTheHobit said:
To all sosuave member. Please get a life, and stop asking stupid questions.

Thanx

You do, uh, see the irony in coming to a site you don't like to announce (on the site) that you dislike it, and that all the members should leave?

It's kind of like sitting in a McDonald's, eating a Big Mac, while telling everyone else that they suck for eating there.

Summary: If you hate the site so much, yet continue to post here, perhaps you're the one who should get a life.
 

JonJaper

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OP has a point if he is targeting people who ask Captain Obvious stupid questions that they could have answered themselves had they read the DJ Bible or useful posts/articles on this website.

Personally I'm here for the self-improvement and taking action by doing the Don Juan Bootcamp and keeping up a workout log in the Health and Fitness section... I'm not here to post stupid crap like "omg guys does she like me???" or "I've got oneitis, help!"
 
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SamTheHobit

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Mantis Toboggan said:
You do, uh, see the irony in coming to a site you don't like to announce (on the site) that you dislike it, and that all the members should leave?

It's kind of like sitting in a McDonald's, eating a Big Mac, while telling everyone else that they suck for eating there.

Summary: If you hate the site so much, yet continue to post here, perhaps you're the one who should get a life.
You're a moron. What a stupid post.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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SamTheHobit said:
You're a moron. What a stupid post.
You'll grow up.

I was annoying when I first came here when I was 16... my first 10 posts were stupid questions, and I used to get all mad when people rebuttaled me. Eventually I stopped caring and stopped posting. I usually come here only to read. I never log in unless I reply.

You got to understand, a lot of the people come here to just bounce ideas, even if they're common sense. Some people just don't have friends who are down to talk about this stuff. Some friends are competitive and want all attention from girls for themselves.

I do.

I'll be with my friends, super-analyzing ideas and theories and even though they are VERY common sense. I love knowing I solved the "puzzle", the "game". They just listen and bounce ideas back, even though I didn't really need them. Without feedback, it's hard to see an idea clearly.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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