SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
To all sosuave member. Please get a life, and stop asking stupid questions.
Thanx
Thanx
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
General annoucment!
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Mantis Toboggan
Master Don Juan
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SamTheHobit said:
You do, uh, see the irony in coming to a site you don't like to announce (on the site) that you dislike it, and that all the members should leave?
It's kind of like sitting in a McDonald's, eating a Big Mac, while telling everyone else that they suck for eating there.
Summary: If you hate the site so much, yet continue to post here, perhaps you're the one who should get a life.
OP has a point if he is targeting people who ask Captain Obvious stupid questions that they could have answered themselves had they read the DJ Bible or useful posts/articles on this website.
Personally I'm here for the self-improvement and taking action by doing the Don Juan Bootcamp and keeping up a workout log in the Health and Fitness section... I'm not here to post stupid crap like "omg guys does she like me???" or "I've got oneitis, help!"
Personally I'm here for the self-improvement and taking action by doing the Don Juan Bootcamp and keeping up a workout log in the Health and Fitness section... I'm not here to post stupid crap like "omg guys does she like me???" or "I've got oneitis, help!"
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SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
You're a moron. What a stupid post.Mantis Toboggan said:
Michele l'Arcangelo
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You'll grow up.SamTheHobit said:
I was annoying when I first came here when I was 16... my first 10 posts were stupid questions, and I used to get all mad when people rebuttaled me. Eventually I stopped caring and stopped posting. I usually come here only to read. I never log in unless I reply.
You got to understand, a lot of the people come here to just bounce ideas, even if they're common sense. Some people just don't have friends who are down to talk about this stuff. Some friends are competitive and want all attention from girls for themselves.
I do.
I'll be with my friends, super-analyzing ideas and theories and even though they are VERY common sense. I love knowing I solved the "puzzle", the "game". They just listen and bounce ideas back, even though I didn't really need them. Without feedback, it's hard to see an idea clearly.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.