SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
To all sosuave member. Please get a life, and stop asking stupid questions.
Thanx
Thanx
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Mantis Toboggan
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SamTheHobit said:
You do, uh, see the irony in coming to a site you don't like to announce (on the site) that you dislike it, and that all the members should leave?
It's kind of like sitting in a McDonald's, eating a Big Mac, while telling everyone else that they suck for eating there.
Summary: If you hate the site so much, yet continue to post here, perhaps you're the one who should get a life.
OP has a point if he is targeting people who ask Captain Obvious stupid questions that they could have answered themselves had they read the DJ Bible or useful posts/articles on this website.
Personally I'm here for the self-improvement and taking action by doing the Don Juan Bootcamp and keeping up a workout log in the Health and Fitness section... I'm not here to post stupid crap like "omg guys does she like me???" or "I've got oneitis, help!"
Personally I'm here for the self-improvement and taking action by doing the Don Juan Bootcamp and keeping up a workout log in the Health and Fitness section... I'm not here to post stupid crap like "omg guys does she like me???" or "I've got oneitis, help!"
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SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
You're a moron. What a stupid post.Mantis Toboggan said:
Michele l'Arcangelo
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You'll grow up.SamTheHobit said:
I was annoying when I first came here when I was 16... my first 10 posts were stupid questions, and I used to get all mad when people rebuttaled me. Eventually I stopped caring and stopped posting. I usually come here only to read. I never log in unless I reply.
You got to understand, a lot of the people come here to just bounce ideas, even if they're common sense. Some people just don't have friends who are down to talk about this stuff. Some friends are competitive and want all attention from girls for themselves.
I do.
I'll be with my friends, super-analyzing ideas and theories and even though they are VERY common sense. I love knowing I solved the "puzzle", the "game". They just listen and bounce ideas back, even though I didn't really need them. Without feedback, it's hard to see an idea clearly.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.