"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Gene Simmons recent interview
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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That was definitely interesting...Gene is as DJ as they come :yes:
I was gonna start a post about an episode of his show I saw a few days ago. He went to Vegas with his business partner and one of his partners cousins or nephew or something who just got out of a divorce. This guy gave a new meaning to the word "AFC".
The whole point of the show was Gene trying to get this guy some snatch. This pitiful sap was in VEGAS with a freakin ROCK GOD, and he still didn't get any tail. What a loser...
Anyway, yea, Gene's a DJ all the way. Watch his show and you can see it in everything he does.
And for what it's worth, I was in an elevator at a hotel on my 21st birthday with him, so I was standing three feet away from him, and let me just say he OOZES confidence. Definitely has what it takes to pick up women. And being one of the best known rock stars of all time helps a little too, I'm sure.
The whole point of the show was Gene trying to get this guy some snatch. This pitiful sap was in VEGAS with a freakin ROCK GOD, and he still didn't get any tail. What a loser...
Anyway, yea, Gene's a DJ all the way. Watch his show and you can see it in everything he does.
And for what it's worth, I was in an elevator at a hotel on my 21st birthday with him, so I was standing three feet away from him, and let me just say he OOZES confidence. Definitely has what it takes to pick up women. And being one of the best known rock stars of all time helps a little too, I'm sure.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yeah, case in point was that video linked above where he just eye-contacted that girl and asked her a question about what music she liked when she was 12. His point was actually dumb, but you can tell his "no hesitation" with women is status quo.STR8UP said:And for what it's worth, I was in an elevator at a hotel on my 21st birthday with him, so I was standing three feet away from him, and let me just say he OOZES confidence. Definitely has what it takes to pick up women. And being one of the best known rock stars of all time helps a little too, I'm sure.
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Its no wonder why he slept with over 4000 women the guy is a true rockstar and is congruent to it, Even though I think his show ''family jewels'' is heavily scripted, you can learn alot from watching his show.
Never been a fan, but I saw them in concert a few years back and my fukking ears were ringing for DAYS...I kid you not.Stormbringer said:As a huge KISS fan for 30 years, I'm freakin' envying you right now...LOL Sharing an elevator with Gene on my 21st birthday would've truly made it even more memorable.
Funny thing about that experience is that I have a few friends that love KISS and they were just like you, jealous....lol. Also saw some of the other band members by the pool earlier in the day, I was like, eh, whatever, where's the beer?
That show was the ultimate contrast between a guy who can have pretty much any woman he wants, and a guy who couldn't get laid to save his life, EVEN IF A ROCK STAR IS SENDING CHICKS TO YOUR HOTEL ROOM!Anyway, I saw the episode you're referring to (I love his show!), and that guy Gene was with was such an incredibly textbook example of AFC, I really wondered if that guy was just playing such a part for the show.
Gene is a mega DJ of the highest order.
I especially liked when Gene said something about the EYES being the key to getting women. So true. If you know how to use eye contact you can seduce a woman without having to say a word. And again, it doesn't hurt to be one of the most famous rock stars of all time!