"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Gene Simmons recent interview
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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That was definitely interesting...Gene is as DJ as they come :yes:
I was gonna start a post about an episode of his show I saw a few days ago. He went to Vegas with his business partner and one of his partners cousins or nephew or something who just got out of a divorce. This guy gave a new meaning to the word "AFC".
The whole point of the show was Gene trying to get this guy some snatch. This pitiful sap was in VEGAS with a freakin ROCK GOD, and he still didn't get any tail. What a loser...
Anyway, yea, Gene's a DJ all the way. Watch his show and you can see it in everything he does.
And for what it's worth, I was in an elevator at a hotel on my 21st birthday with him, so I was standing three feet away from him, and let me just say he OOZES confidence. Definitely has what it takes to pick up women. And being one of the best known rock stars of all time helps a little too, I'm sure.
The whole point of the show was Gene trying to get this guy some snatch. This pitiful sap was in VEGAS with a freakin ROCK GOD, and he still didn't get any tail. What a loser...
Anyway, yea, Gene's a DJ all the way. Watch his show and you can see it in everything he does.
And for what it's worth, I was in an elevator at a hotel on my 21st birthday with him, so I was standing three feet away from him, and let me just say he OOZES confidence. Definitely has what it takes to pick up women. And being one of the best known rock stars of all time helps a little too, I'm sure.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Yeah, case in point was that video linked above where he just eye-contacted that girl and asked her a question about what music she liked when she was 12. His point was actually dumb, but you can tell his "no hesitation" with women is status quo.STR8UP said:And for what it's worth, I was in an elevator at a hotel on my 21st birthday with him, so I was standing three feet away from him, and let me just say he OOZES confidence. Definitely has what it takes to pick up women. And being one of the best known rock stars of all time helps a little too, I'm sure.
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Its no wonder why he slept with over 4000 women the guy is a true rockstar and is congruent to it, Even though I think his show ''family jewels'' is heavily scripted, you can learn alot from watching his show.
Never been a fan, but I saw them in concert a few years back and my fukking ears were ringing for DAYS...I kid you not.Stormbringer said:As a huge KISS fan for 30 years, I'm freakin' envying you right now...LOL Sharing an elevator with Gene on my 21st birthday would've truly made it even more memorable.
Funny thing about that experience is that I have a few friends that love KISS and they were just like you, jealous....lol. Also saw some of the other band members by the pool earlier in the day, I was like, eh, whatever, where's the beer?
That show was the ultimate contrast between a guy who can have pretty much any woman he wants, and a guy who couldn't get laid to save his life, EVEN IF A ROCK STAR IS SENDING CHICKS TO YOUR HOTEL ROOM!Anyway, I saw the episode you're referring to (I love his show!), and that guy Gene was with was such an incredibly textbook example of AFC, I really wondered if that guy was just playing such a part for the show.
Gene is a mega DJ of the highest order.
I especially liked when Gene said something about the EYES being the key to getting women. So true. If you know how to use eye contact you can seduce a woman without having to say a word. And again, it doesn't hurt to be one of the most famous rock stars of all time!