You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yeah, case in point was that video linked above where he just eye-contacted that girl and asked her a question about what music she liked when she was 12. His point was actually dumb, but you can tell his "no hesitation" with women is status quo.STR8UP said:And for what it's worth, I was in an elevator at a hotel on my 21st birthday with him, so I was standing three feet away from him, and let me just say he OOZES confidence. Definitely has what it takes to pick up women. And being one of the best known rock stars of all time helps a little too, I'm sure.
Never been a fan, but I saw them in concert a few years back and my fukking ears were ringing for DAYS...I kid you not.Stormbringer said:As a huge KISS fan for 30 years, I'm freakin' envying you right now...LOL Sharing an elevator with Gene on my 21st birthday would've truly made it even more memorable.
That show was the ultimate contrast between a guy who can have pretty much any woman he wants, and a guy who couldn't get laid to save his life, EVEN IF A ROCK STAR IS SENDING CHICKS TO YOUR HOTEL ROOM!Anyway, I saw the episode you're referring to (I love his show!), and that guy Gene was with was such an incredibly textbook example of AFC, I really wondered if that guy was just playing such a part for the show.
Gene is a mega DJ of the highest order.