"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Gene Simmons recent interview
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
WhitePimp
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That was definitely interesting...Gene is as DJ as they come :yes:
I was gonna start a post about an episode of his show I saw a few days ago. He went to Vegas with his business partner and one of his partners cousins or nephew or something who just got out of a divorce. This guy gave a new meaning to the word "AFC".
The whole point of the show was Gene trying to get this guy some snatch. This pitiful sap was in VEGAS with a freakin ROCK GOD, and he still didn't get any tail. What a loser...
Anyway, yea, Gene's a DJ all the way. Watch his show and you can see it in everything he does.
And for what it's worth, I was in an elevator at a hotel on my 21st birthday with him, so I was standing three feet away from him, and let me just say he OOZES confidence. Definitely has what it takes to pick up women. And being one of the best known rock stars of all time helps a little too, I'm sure.
The whole point of the show was Gene trying to get this guy some snatch. This pitiful sap was in VEGAS with a freakin ROCK GOD, and he still didn't get any tail. What a loser...
Anyway, yea, Gene's a DJ all the way. Watch his show and you can see it in everything he does.
And for what it's worth, I was in an elevator at a hotel on my 21st birthday with him, so I was standing three feet away from him, and let me just say he OOZES confidence. Definitely has what it takes to pick up women. And being one of the best known rock stars of all time helps a little too, I'm sure.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Yeah, case in point was that video linked above where he just eye-contacted that girl and asked her a question about what music she liked when she was 12. His point was actually dumb, but you can tell his "no hesitation" with women is status quo.STR8UP said:And for what it's worth, I was in an elevator at a hotel on my 21st birthday with him, so I was standing three feet away from him, and let me just say he OOZES confidence. Definitely has what it takes to pick up women. And being one of the best known rock stars of all time helps a little too, I'm sure.
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Its no wonder why he slept with over 4000 women the guy is a true rockstar and is congruent to it, Even though I think his show ''family jewels'' is heavily scripted, you can learn alot from watching his show.
Never been a fan, but I saw them in concert a few years back and my fukking ears were ringing for DAYS...I kid you not.Stormbringer said:As a huge KISS fan for 30 years, I'm freakin' envying you right now...LOL Sharing an elevator with Gene on my 21st birthday would've truly made it even more memorable.
Funny thing about that experience is that I have a few friends that love KISS and they were just like you, jealous....lol. Also saw some of the other band members by the pool earlier in the day, I was like, eh, whatever, where's the beer?
That show was the ultimate contrast between a guy who can have pretty much any woman he wants, and a guy who couldn't get laid to save his life, EVEN IF A ROCK STAR IS SENDING CHICKS TO YOUR HOTEL ROOM!Anyway, I saw the episode you're referring to (I love his show!), and that guy Gene was with was such an incredibly textbook example of AFC, I really wondered if that guy was just playing such a part for the show.
Gene is a mega DJ of the highest order.
I especially liked when Gene said something about the EYES being the key to getting women. So true. If you know how to use eye contact you can seduce a woman without having to say a word. And again, it doesn't hurt to be one of the most famous rock stars of all time!