"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Geeks get taller

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Apparently a lot of people trying to get this leg lengthening surgery talked about on here prior are software engineers from big tech companies.

They don't get that being anti social and awkward is what is hurting them and that gaining 3 inches in height will do next to nothing for them in regards to getting women.

So glad I am a cool dork that knows how to talk and interact with people.

 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Many 'geeks' like to jump on whatever latest-and-greatest trend/gadget bandwagon is going on at the moment without thinking about what their actual end-goal is. Seems like it's more about owning the gadget and being part of the crowd than it is about how it improves the efficiency and effectiveness of one's life.
 

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Many 'geeks' like to jump on whatever latest-and-greatest trend/gadget bandwagon is going on at the moment without thinking about what their actual end-goal is. Seems like it's more about owning the gadget and being part of the crowd than it is about how it improves the efficiency and effectiveness of one's life.
Not sure how paying 75K and going through a lot of physical pain qualifies for that statement.
 

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Not sure how paying 75K and going through a lot of physical pain qualifies for that statement.
It's a stretch, but I think he was going with "shortcuts/tools to get to acceptance".
 

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I am thinking of the tech-nouveau-riche who have more money than sense.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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They will just end up looking weird with overly long thighs that are out of proportion.
 

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Many 'geeks' like to jump on whatever latest-and-greatest trend/gadget bandwagon is going on at the moment without thinking about what their actual end-goal is. Seems like it's more about owning the gadget and being part of the crowd than it is about how it improves the efficiency and effectiveness of one's life.
Spot on true. I was “geeky” for a good chunk of my life. One difference now I can step back and see is that geeks seem to follow the path of submitting, following the herd, and being controlled. Just because someone else says to or does it, “I must follow” said the geek. Now, I do whatever the hell I want without following the herd. And I make no apologies. Example: Was recently at a technology event in Chicago. We got three restrooms: mens, womens, either. Twenty guys in line for the mens. I moose right past the crowd and right into the “either” restroom. All these guys were like WTF! None of them went in it cuz the other guys weren’t using it. Follow the herd. After I used it others followed.. I hope some of these geeky IT guys go home and think about breaking from the heard because of my influence.
 

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I am thinking of the tech-nouveau-riche who have more money than sense.
The PR article and GQ link about One surgeon out of six currently operating in North America promoting a highly debilitating, dangerous, and lengthy pain inducing procedure that would only appeal to insecure mentally impaired men …
Not exactly prime examples of confident DJ mindset individuals.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I like how in the cartoon the girls are lesbians until they meet the right guy. I've seen that numerous times in real life.

As for the surgery, aside from everything else about it that's appalling and horrifying, I'd be worried about scars. I wonder if anyone has ever gotten this surgery, and it actually turned things around for them? For most people, I'm sure it wouldn't, but everybody's different. Might have made the difference for someone, even if they're few and far between. Then I'd wonder if it's the extra height or just believing in it.
 
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