"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sounds like nexus is in the closet, but wanting to come out. sounds also like crazy asian is bi-curious.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
skirtChaser said:
sounds like nexus is in the closet, but wanting to come out. sounds also like crazy asian is bi-curious.
Why does he keep making weird topics?:whistle:
 

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The Sperminator said:
He owes you a bj but he doesn't know that you know hes gay...
lol those were the EXACT words that came to my mind too!:crackup:
 

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Nexus Polaris said:
It's not gay if your balls don't touch.

It's also not gay if you're the pitcher and not the catcher.

A mouth knows no gender.

Am I forgetting any? My friends spout this off constantly.
So did you believe them and give in? :rolleyes:
 

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Crazy Asian said:
he didn't "hit" on me, but he keeps on talking about how we need to hang out, and how he owes me a bj(long story). But he doesn't know that i know he's gay, his chick friend told me.
He owes you a bj? :eek:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I knew a guy like this in college. I helped him with some math once because he was behind and then we started talking regularly in class (it was a very quiet, antisocial class). Anyways, one day he asks me if I could help him out some more. I say ok -thinking it was on campus like normal- and he hands me a piece of paper with his email address and phone number and tells me we should "make a day of it". I was questioning his motives at this point and my hunch ended up being true when a couple of weeks later we were talking about boredom and he suggested if I wanted to have a "good time", I should go to gay night at the pavillion (name of a nightclub around here). My ass always came to class late and I was the first to always leave after that day just to avoid conversation.
 

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Crazy Asian said:
he didn't "hit" on me, but he keeps on talking about how we need to hang out, and how he owes me a bj(long story). But he doesn't know that i know he's gay, his chick friend told me.
why does he owe you a blow job:eek: ?

inst the answer to your question obvious "tell him you don't want to hang out"
or is there something more:rolleyes:
 

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If you knew my circle of friends, that's just common banter with us. The girls, too.

Although, there's a guy that's not exactly part of the circle that we all know who coined that last one. He used to get head from a tranny a lot. That was how he justified it.
 

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^ That's some straight up homophobe shìt right there.

Man, I have to quit smoking. I feel the need to respond to everything today.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Crazy Asian said:
so this gay guy has a crush on me.

and he keeps on asking me to hang out.

lol any of u guys have experience with this?
"Leave Crazy Asian alone, or so help me... you will have to answer to his gay friend!"

Lol.

Get clarification. Who knows? He might just want to hang out. I don't ask out every woman I hang out with, and I'm not always looking to date them. But feel free to give him the "offended "are you KIDDING ME?!" look."

If you don't want to hang out with the dude, that's up to you. (I wouldn't go it alone, though, especially if the guy was telling me he wanted to give me a BJ.)

Still, use tact about saying no until he starts getting offensive or creepy.

See, one of my friends threatened a gay guy publicly when he was asked to hang out. Then a bunch of women who overheard the threats told me that it was a turn off to see my buddy threatening violence and freaking out like that.

So, you know... word to the wise.
 

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haha he owes me one cause when i didn't know he was gay, i asked him to do something (i forgot wut it was), but he couldn't, so he's like "ok well i'll just give you a free coupon for a bj".... now he keeps bringing it up on e-mail...
fvck, i'm really disgusted
 

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thats hot... it'd be so suave of you and don juan of you to take it. hit that sh1t! don't listen to these haters.

idiot.
 

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skirtChaser said:
nexus real name is george michael
You gotta have faith.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Say "No" to ho-mos!!!!
 
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