skirtChaser
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sounds like nexus is in the closet, but wanting to come out. sounds also like crazy asian is bi-curious.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Absinthe11
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I knew a guy like this in college. I helped him with some math once because he was behind and then we started talking regularly in class (it was a very quiet, antisocial class). Anyways, one day he asks me if I could help him out some more. I say ok -thinking it was on campus like normal- and he hands me a piece of paper with his email address and phone number and tells me we should "make a day of it". I was questioning his motives at this point and my hunch ended up being true when a couple of weeks later we were talking about boredom and he suggested if I wanted to have a "good time", I should go to gay night at the pavillion (name of a nightclub around here). My ass always came to class late and I was the first to always leave after that day just to avoid conversation.
Nexus Polaris
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If you knew my circle of friends, that's just common banter with us. The girls, too.
Although, there's a guy that's not exactly part of the circle that we all know who coined that last one. He used to get head from a tranny a lot. That was how he justified it.
Although, there's a guy that's not exactly part of the circle that we all know who coined that last one. He used to get head from a tranny a lot. That was how he justified it.
Nexus Polaris
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^ That's some straight up homophobe shìt right there.
Man, I have to quit smoking. I feel the need to respond to everything today.
Man, I have to quit smoking. I feel the need to respond to everything today.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
"Leave Crazy Asian alone, or so help me... you will have to answer to his gay friend!"Crazy Asian said:
Lol.
Get clarification. Who knows? He might just want to hang out. I don't ask out every woman I hang out with, and I'm not always looking to date them. But feel free to give him the "offended "are you KIDDING ME?!" look."
If you don't want to hang out with the dude, that's up to you. (I wouldn't go it alone, though, especially if the guy was telling me he wanted to give me a BJ.)
Still, use tact about saying no until he starts getting offensive or creepy.
See, one of my friends threatened a gay guy publicly when he was asked to hang out. Then a bunch of women who overheard the threats told me that it was a turn off to see my buddy threatening violence and freaking out like that.
So, you know... word to the wise.
skirtChaser
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nexus real name is george michael
Crazy Asian
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haha he owes me one cause when i didn't know he was gay, i asked him to do something (i forgot wut it was), but he couldn't, so he's like "ok well i'll just give you a free coupon for a bj".... now he keeps bringing it up on e-mail...
fvck, i'm really disgusted
fvck, i'm really disgusted
Michele l'Arcangelo
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thats hot... it'd be so suave of you and don juan of you to take it. hit that sh1t! don't listen to these haters.
idiot.
idiot.
Nexus Polaris
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You gotta have faith.skirtChaser said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Last Man Standing
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Say "No" to ho-mos!!!!