"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Gap in between Abs? WTF?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Achielles34

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I don't think you can prevent it, I've seen in a few fitness magazines. It's the way the muscles are structured on your frame.
 

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That's not how it's "supposed to look", but thats all based on your genetic muscle structure. Some people have short bicep muscles, some have long bicep muscles. Some people have "lopsided" abs, some have "symmetrical" abs, and some have the gaps. I have the lopsided, but I like it. Gives me sort of a 'rugged' look.
 

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Well its kind of how it would look if you had zero body fat and worked your abs a hell of a lot for a long time.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Skilla_Staz

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What exactly is "It". I know as a matter of fact, that there is no gap in between my abs, no matter how hard I work them. Also, there are very few bodybuilders with gap abs, and they get to extremely low bodyfat and work their abs insanely.


Plus, the lowest you can go is about 3% body fat. From what I remember, some of/parts of your organs count as bodyfat (brain or something like that)
 

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Those aren't quite as serious as the picture in the orginal post.


Don't worry about it man. Nothing you can do.
 

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One thing both Serge Nubret and the first guy posted have in common is that they are both massively steroidal. This probably won't happen to you if you don't juice a lot.
 
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