"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ganji games?

skaterguy97

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hey guys long time viewer few time poster here.......well here goes my gf of almost a year and a half recently broke it off with me citing me showing less affection and fighting as the reasons for the split.....however despite that she broke it off she still acts almost the same around me , tells me she loves me and all that crap but when i bring up us she doesnt know what the hell shes gonna do, so she wants me to wait around until she makes up her mind which i think isnt a healthy thing to do....anywayz do you all think that some ganji games would help her to make up her mind or would do anything to her? thanks for the help all!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lol no not indian, im italian.......its where you cut off all contact with a girl for an extended period of time with the assumption that she will come to you after awhile
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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Originally posted by skaterguy97
lol no not indian, im italian.......its where you cut off all contact with a girl for an extended period of time with the assumption that she will come to you after awhile


I didn't know they had a name for this... but that's what I would do... and I wouldn't attach the word "game" to the term, either....

I wouldn't be playing a game. She broke it off.. I move on. If she wants to work it out, it's up to her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Man. I hate to say this, but when a girl "breaks up" with you. It's over. Capish. Done. There's nothing you can do to get her into a serious relationship anymore. You can have a fling. But not a serious relationship where she really loves you. I believe the Antidump, lol.
 

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well this happened once b4 with her like 7-8 months ago.......i thought the same thing but she came back and we had a very serious relationship after that.....but i do believe what your saying
 
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