"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ganji games?

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hey guys long time viewer few time poster here.......well here goes my gf of almost a year and a half recently broke it off with me citing me showing less affection and fighting as the reasons for the split.....however despite that she broke it off she still acts almost the same around me , tells me she loves me and all that crap but when i bring up us she doesnt know what the hell shes gonna do, so she wants me to wait around until she makes up her mind which i think isnt a healthy thing to do....anywayz do you all think that some ganji games would help her to make up her mind or would do anything to her? thanks for the help all!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lol no not indian, im italian.......its where you cut off all contact with a girl for an extended period of time with the assumption that she will come to you after awhile
 
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Originally posted by skaterguy97
lol no not indian, im italian.......its where you cut off all contact with a girl for an extended period of time with the assumption that she will come to you after awhile
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I didn't know they had a name for this... but that's what I would do... and I wouldn't attach the word "game" to the term, either....

I wouldn't be playing a game. She broke it off.. I move on. If she wants to work it out, it's up to her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Man. I hate to say this, but when a girl "breaks up" with you. It's over. Capish. Done. There's nothing you can do to get her into a serious relationship anymore. You can have a fling. But not a serious relationship where she really loves you. I believe the Antidump, lol.
 
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well this happened once b4 with her like 7-8 months ago.......i thought the same thing but she came back and we had a very serious relationship after that.....but i do believe what your saying
 
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