"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ganji games?

skaterguy97

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hey guys long time viewer few time poster here.......well here goes my gf of almost a year and a half recently broke it off with me citing me showing less affection and fighting as the reasons for the split.....however despite that she broke it off she still acts almost the same around me , tells me she loves me and all that crap but when i bring up us she doesnt know what the hell shes gonna do, so she wants me to wait around until she makes up her mind which i think isnt a healthy thing to do....anywayz do you all think that some ganji games would help her to make up her mind or would do anything to her? thanks for the help all!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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lol no not indian, im italian.......its where you cut off all contact with a girl for an extended period of time with the assumption that she will come to you after awhile
 

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Originally posted by skaterguy97
lol no not indian, im italian.......its where you cut off all contact with a girl for an extended period of time with the assumption that she will come to you after awhile


I didn't know they had a name for this... but that's what I would do... and I wouldn't attach the word "game" to the term, either....

I wouldn't be playing a game. She broke it off.. I move on. If she wants to work it out, it's up to her.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Man. I hate to say this, but when a girl "breaks up" with you. It's over. Capish. Done. There's nothing you can do to get her into a serious relationship anymore. You can have a fling. But not a serious relationship where she really loves you. I believe the Antidump, lol.
 

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well this happened once b4 with her like 7-8 months ago.......i thought the same thing but she came back and we had a very serious relationship after that.....but i do believe what your saying
 
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