"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ganji games?

skaterguy97

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hey guys long time viewer few time poster here.......well here goes my gf of almost a year and a half recently broke it off with me citing me showing less affection and fighting as the reasons for the split.....however despite that she broke it off she still acts almost the same around me , tells me she loves me and all that crap but when i bring up us she doesnt know what the hell shes gonna do, so she wants me to wait around until she makes up her mind which i think isnt a healthy thing to do....anywayz do you all think that some ganji games would help her to make up her mind or would do anything to her? thanks for the help all!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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skaterguy97

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lol no not indian, im italian.......its where you cut off all contact with a girl for an extended period of time with the assumption that she will come to you after awhile
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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Originally posted by skaterguy97
lol no not indian, im italian.......its where you cut off all contact with a girl for an extended period of time with the assumption that she will come to you after awhile


I didn't know they had a name for this... but that's what I would do... and I wouldn't attach the word "game" to the term, either....

I wouldn't be playing a game. She broke it off.. I move on. If she wants to work it out, it's up to her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Man. I hate to say this, but when a girl "breaks up" with you. It's over. Capish. Done. There's nothing you can do to get her into a serious relationship anymore. You can have a fling. But not a serious relationship where she really loves you. I believe the Antidump, lol.
 

skaterguy97

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well this happened once b4 with her like 7-8 months ago.......i thought the same thing but she came back and we had a very serious relationship after that.....but i do believe what your saying
 
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