"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"Gaming" men..

BigJolly

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..No this is not a gay topic. I was wondering if there is any advice for being able to get guys numbers for DHV like bartenders at a club our bouncers. I ended up getting a bartenders number the other night and he said I was cool and he would hook me up with free cover and drinks next time I call him. So ya any tips on "gaming" men?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Cry For Love

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seriously though, kino does work great. it is pure magic, not only with women.
 

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Hah you serious about kinoing? Wouldn't that come off as being gay?
 

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BigJolly said:
Hah you serious about kinoing? Wouldn't that come off as being gay?
hell no it's not gay.. I pound fists/high five guys all the time. Just don't grab their ass/**** - that might come off a little gay... :down:
 

Cry For Love

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It comes off as "deep". It amplifies a relationship even if both are straight. You dont really have a deep friendship with someone if you dont kino them.

And another thing, even grabbing ass and play "shagging" is not gay, though it is regrettably( as it limits friendship deepness ) taboo in western culture, but for example in korea it is common, like these korean pro gamers
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uqbwj7CwwkU
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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horaholic

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Its not gay if you're hitting each other while doing it! :up:


BTW, dont call it 'gaming' men, sweetheart, cuz that is undeniably gay. Its called MAKING FRIENDS, and if you want to do it, introduce yourself, talk to them, buy them a beer, talk about how all women are bytches, armwrestle, tell jokes, fart, play pool, watch football, punch each other, etc. If that doesnt work, buy him some flowers and write him a poem. You really need advice on this subject??
 

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Not everybody is good at making friends with dudes.

There's noting wrong about giving advice.
 

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HUGE difference between a thread titled "Need help with making friends" and... "Gaming men."

"I was wondering if there is any advice for being able to get guys numbers"
"So ya any tips on "gaming" men?"

The OP dug his own grave saying shyt like that! Its fair game, and all bets are off on this thread :crackup:

That door was left WWIIIIDDDEE open!
 
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