"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Gaming" men..

BigJolly

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..No this is not a gay topic. I was wondering if there is any advice for being able to get guys numbers for DHV like bartenders at a club our bouncers. I ended up getting a bartenders number the other night and he said I was cool and he would hook me up with free cover and drinks next time I call him. So ya any tips on "gaming" men?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Cry For Love

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seriously though, kino does work great. it is pure magic, not only with women.
 

BigJolly

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Hah you serious about kinoing? Wouldn't that come off as being gay?
 

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BigJolly said:
Hah you serious about kinoing? Wouldn't that come off as being gay?
hell no it's not gay.. I pound fists/high five guys all the time. Just don't grab their ass/**** - that might come off a little gay... :down:
 

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It comes off as "deep". It amplifies a relationship even if both are straight. You dont really have a deep friendship with someone if you dont kino them.

And another thing, even grabbing ass and play "shagging" is not gay, though it is regrettably( as it limits friendship deepness ) taboo in western culture, but for example in korea it is common, like these korean pro gamers
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uqbwj7CwwkU
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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horaholic

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Its not gay if you're hitting each other while doing it! :up:


BTW, dont call it 'gaming' men, sweetheart, cuz that is undeniably gay. Its called MAKING FRIENDS, and if you want to do it, introduce yourself, talk to them, buy them a beer, talk about how all women are bytches, armwrestle, tell jokes, fart, play pool, watch football, punch each other, etc. If that doesnt work, buy him some flowers and write him a poem. You really need advice on this subject??
 

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Not everybody is good at making friends with dudes.

There's noting wrong about giving advice.
 

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HUGE difference between a thread titled "Need help with making friends" and... "Gaming men."

"I was wondering if there is any advice for being able to get guys numbers"
"So ya any tips on "gaming" men?"

The OP dug his own grave saying shyt like that! Its fair game, and all bets are off on this thread :crackup:

That door was left WWIIIIDDDEE open!
 
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