..No this is not a gay topic. I was wondering if there is any advice for being able to get guys numbers for DHV like bartenders at a club our bouncers. I ended up getting a bartenders number the other night and he said I was cool and he would hook me up with free cover and drinks next time I call him. So ya any tips on "gaming" men?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
"Gaming" men..
- Thread starter BigJolly
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Cry For Love
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seriously though, kino does work great. it is pure magic, not only with women.
Cry For Love
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It comes off as "deep". It amplifies a relationship even if both are straight. You dont really have a deep friendship with someone if you dont kino them.
And another thing, even grabbing ass and play "shagging" is not gay, though it is regrettably( as it limits friendship deepness ) taboo in western culture, but for example in korea it is common, like these korean pro gamers
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uqbwj7CwwkU
And another thing, even grabbing ass and play "shagging" is not gay, though it is regrettably( as it limits friendship deepness ) taboo in western culture, but for example in korea it is common, like these korean pro gamers
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uqbwj7CwwkU
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Its not gay if you're hitting each other while doing it! 
BTW, dont call it 'gaming' men, sweetheart, cuz that is undeniably gay. Its called MAKING FRIENDS, and if you want to do it, introduce yourself, talk to them, buy them a beer, talk about how all women are bytches, armwrestle, tell jokes, fart, play pool, watch football, punch each other, etc. If that doesnt work, buy him some flowers and write him a poem. You really need advice on this subject??
BTW, dont call it 'gaming' men, sweetheart, cuz that is undeniably gay. Its called MAKING FRIENDS, and if you want to do it, introduce yourself, talk to them, buy them a beer, talk about how all women are bytches, armwrestle, tell jokes, fart, play pool, watch football, punch each other, etc. If that doesnt work, buy him some flowers and write him a poem. You really need advice on this subject??
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Not everybody is good at making friends with dudes.
There's noting wrong about giving advice.
There's noting wrong about giving advice.
HUGE difference between a thread titled "Need help with making friends" and... "Gaming men."
"I was wondering if there is any advice for being able to get guys numbers"
"So ya any tips on "gaming" men?"
The OP dug his own grave saying shyt like that! Its fair game, and all bets are off on this thread :crackup:
That door was left WWIIIIDDDEE open!
"I was wondering if there is any advice for being able to get guys numbers"
"So ya any tips on "gaming" men?"
The OP dug his own grave saying shyt like that! Its fair game, and all bets are off on this thread :crackup:
That door was left WWIIIIDDDEE open!