"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

"Gaming" men..

BigJolly

New Member
Joined
Jul 22, 2010
Messages
7
Reaction score
0
..No this is not a gay topic. I was wondering if there is any advice for being able to get guys numbers for DHV like bartenders at a club our bouncers. I ended up getting a bartenders number the other night and he said I was cool and he would hook me up with free cover and drinks next time I call him. So ya any tips on "gaming" men?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Cry For Love

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 24, 2007
Messages
294
Reaction score
6
seriously though, kino does work great. it is pure magic, not only with women.
 

BigJolly

New Member
Joined
Jul 22, 2010
Messages
7
Reaction score
0
Hah you serious about kinoing? Wouldn't that come off as being gay?
 

SteR

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 9, 2004
Messages
749
Reaction score
253
BigJolly said:
Hah you serious about kinoing? Wouldn't that come off as being gay?
hell no it's not gay.. I pound fists/high five guys all the time. Just don't grab their ass/**** - that might come off a little gay... :down:
 

Cry For Love

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 24, 2007
Messages
294
Reaction score
6
It comes off as "deep". It amplifies a relationship even if both are straight. You dont really have a deep friendship with someone if you dont kino them.

And another thing, even grabbing ass and play "shagging" is not gay, though it is regrettably( as it limits friendship deepness ) taboo in western culture, but for example in korea it is common, like these korean pro gamers
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uqbwj7CwwkU
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

horaholic

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 12, 2008
Messages
2,254
Reaction score
79
Its not gay if you're hitting each other while doing it! :up:


BTW, dont call it 'gaming' men, sweetheart, cuz that is undeniably gay. Its called MAKING FRIENDS, and if you want to do it, introduce yourself, talk to them, buy them a beer, talk about how all women are bytches, armwrestle, tell jokes, fart, play pool, watch football, punch each other, etc. If that doesnt work, buy him some flowers and write him a poem. You really need advice on this subject??
 

Maxtro

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 6, 2004
Messages
3,198
Reaction score
31
Location
Kalifornicatia
Not everybody is good at making friends with dudes.

There's noting wrong about giving advice.
 

horaholic

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 12, 2008
Messages
2,254
Reaction score
79
HUGE difference between a thread titled "Need help with making friends" and... "Gaming men."

"I was wondering if there is any advice for being able to get guys numbers"
"So ya any tips on "gaming" men?"

The OP dug his own grave saying shyt like that! Its fair game, and all bets are off on this thread :crackup:

That door was left WWIIIIDDDEE open!
 
Top