"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"Gaming" men..

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..No this is not a gay topic. I was wondering if there is any advice for being able to get guys numbers for DHV like bartenders at a club our bouncers. I ended up getting a bartenders number the other night and he said I was cool and he would hook me up with free cover and drinks next time I call him. So ya any tips on "gaming" men?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Cry For Love

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seriously though, kino does work great. it is pure magic, not only with women.
 

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Hah you serious about kinoing? Wouldn't that come off as being gay?
 

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BigJolly said:
Hah you serious about kinoing? Wouldn't that come off as being gay?
hell no it's not gay.. I pound fists/high five guys all the time. Just don't grab their ass/**** - that might come off a little gay... :down:
 

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It comes off as "deep". It amplifies a relationship even if both are straight. You dont really have a deep friendship with someone if you dont kino them.

And another thing, even grabbing ass and play "shagging" is not gay, though it is regrettably( as it limits friendship deepness ) taboo in western culture, but for example in korea it is common, like these korean pro gamers
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uqbwj7CwwkU
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Its not gay if you're hitting each other while doing it! :up:


BTW, dont call it 'gaming' men, sweetheart, cuz that is undeniably gay. Its called MAKING FRIENDS, and if you want to do it, introduce yourself, talk to them, buy them a beer, talk about how all women are bytches, armwrestle, tell jokes, fart, play pool, watch football, punch each other, etc. If that doesnt work, buy him some flowers and write him a poem. You really need advice on this subject??
 

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Not everybody is good at making friends with dudes.

There's noting wrong about giving advice.
 

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HUGE difference between a thread titled "Need help with making friends" and... "Gaming men."

"I was wondering if there is any advice for being able to get guys numbers"
"So ya any tips on "gaming" men?"

The OP dug his own grave saying shyt like that! Its fair game, and all bets are off on this thread :crackup:

That door was left WWIIIIDDDEE open!
 
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