"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Gaming and Economic Depression

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So, say the western world is turned up side down by a massive economic depression, and men that had money now have nothing. How would the world of dating be different?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hell if I know. I've always had nothing. I only got by on my cute smile and charm. I don't think much will change for me...for the ones with golddiggers and trophy wives...and rich social circle game...I feel for ya bros!
 

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Resources for survival trumps all !!! The man with the most resources or able to acquire resources will be the most desirable.

1.) Wealth / Resources

2.) Resourcefulness (ability to create or generate resources)

3.) Strength (ability to protect resources)

4.) Looks (the better the looks the more likely a person has access to resources)

5.) Personality

will be the order of importance when it comes to getting women.
 

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Drum&Bass said:
Resources for survival trumps all !!! The man with the most resources or able to acquire resources will be the most desirable.

1.) Wealth / Resources

2.) Resourcefulness (ability to create or generate resources)

3.) Strength (ability to protect resources)

4.) Looks (the better the looks the more likely a person has access to resources)

5.) Personality

will be the order of importance when it comes to getting women.

That might answer my question. Thanks.
 

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Although the media loves to bombard us with stories of millionaires suddenly going bankrupt, the truth is that the majority of rich people have remained rich throughout this economic crisis. Maybe they weren't as rich as before, but they continued to maintain their position relative to everyone else since most people got a little poorer.

I was reading an article the other day about how the number of billionaires is back up to what it was before the crisis.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ironic Lexington, how you tell us we shouldnt believe the media and then in your
closing statement you use the very same media to supplement your post.

Although the media loves to bombard us with stories of millionaires suddenly going bankrupt, the truth is that the majority of rich people have remained rich throughout this economic crisis.
and then..
I was reading an article the other day about how the number of billionaires is back up to what it was before the crisis.
 

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Plinco said:
So, say the western world is turned up side down by a massive economic depression, and men that had money now have nothing. How would the world of dating be different?
I've found that the last really good time for dating for me was summer 2008, right as the economy was taking a huge dump. I don't know why, but since then the women have been less fun and more into LTRs. Less casual sex. 2009 and 2010 have only given me two new girls per year so far, not counting the mid- and long-term relps I'm in as well. I banged like 6 chicks in summer of 2008, it was a blast.

Also, back in the recession of 2001-2002 I couldn't get laid to save my asp... but that was before I was doing online dating. When the economy turned around in 2003-2004 the ladies opened up too.

I think there might be a lot to the economy thing vis-a-vis dating. The more money is around the looser women get. When they are afraid for their future they tend to clamp their legs together and wait for LTRs.
 

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Kerpal said:
One interesting thing I've noticed since things really started going down the tubes is the amount of attractive girls working ****ty jobs like fast food drive thrus and grocery store cashiers. I guess all the best jobs that the good looking girls get are drying up.

That safety net of society is deteriorating for them. I suppose that women will be geared towards LTR's to guys with the most resources.
 

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One interesting thing I've noticed since things really started going down the tubes is the amount of attractive girls working ****ty jobs like fast food drive thrus and grocery store cashiers.
There have always been good looking girls in those positions, although they tend to be younger.

Zarky's theory about women's slvttiness being tied to the economy is an interesting one, I had never even considered that. It makes sense when you think about it.
 

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Drum&Bass said:
Ironic Lexington, how you tell us we shouldnt believe the media and then in your
closing statement you use the very same media to supplement your post.

and then..
Read carefully. I never said that we should not believe the media. I said they like to BOMBARD us with stories about rich people suddenly becoming poor. It is true that many people who were once rich became poor, but that doesn't change the fact that the majority of rich people remained wealthy through this depression.

Of course, a story about a millionaire becoming bankrupt overnight is far more appealing and interesting than a report about how most rich people are still rich....which isn't even really news.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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