"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Landon

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So I meet a 8.5 Friday night. We hit it off but im playing guitar at the bonfire we are at so she doesn't get too much attention. Later that night she txtd me from a buddys phone and i got her number. Saturday we went and hung out and just had real good chemistry and only made out. She texted me that for her to go that far on a first date was very uncharacteristic and she didnt want to be THAT girl. But in the same txt tells me that she is still attracted and if given the chance she knows she would do it again. WTF? Shes 20....prob has something to do with it right? Then she txt me yesterday that she hopes i have a good day.....really? Is she playing games? Im going with a bunch of friends and her to a concert Sat. night....any ideas on how to play it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Tiguere

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She doesn't wanna be seen as a hoe. Show her you aren't the judgemental type.
 

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so do i keep pursuing her....like she will txt hope you have a good day, or about how a certain music artist reminds me of her.....but do i need to back off a little or keep going full throttle? All my lady friends have said to ignore her completly?:trouble:
 

PRMoon

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Keep it light boss. If she's txting you and you feel like you must txt her back just do one or two word txt at most. I wouldn't contact her at all personally. In a situation like this I'd wager the girl wants to gauge how much attention you're willing to give her so she knows how much power she has. For me the response to that test of power is always you have little or none. More often then not with little or no contact they'll get knocked out of their comfort zone and start to call or txt more and more often.
 
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