"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Games Anyone?

Landon

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So I meet a 8.5 Friday night. We hit it off but im playing guitar at the bonfire we are at so she doesn't get too much attention. Later that night she txtd me from a buddys phone and i got her number. Saturday we went and hung out and just had real good chemistry and only made out. She texted me that for her to go that far on a first date was very uncharacteristic and she didnt want to be THAT girl. But in the same txt tells me that she is still attracted and if given the chance she knows she would do it again. WTF? Shes 20....prob has something to do with it right? Then she txt me yesterday that she hopes i have a good day.....really? Is she playing games? Im going with a bunch of friends and her to a concert Sat. night....any ideas on how to play it?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tiguere

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She doesn't wanna be seen as a hoe. Show her you aren't the judgemental type.
 

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so do i keep pursuing her....like she will txt hope you have a good day, or about how a certain music artist reminds me of her.....but do i need to back off a little or keep going full throttle? All my lady friends have said to ignore her completly?:trouble:
 

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Keep it light boss. If she's txting you and you feel like you must txt her back just do one or two word txt at most. I wouldn't contact her at all personally. In a situation like this I'd wager the girl wants to gauge how much attention you're willing to give her so she knows how much power she has. For me the response to that test of power is always you have little or none. More often then not with little or no contact they'll get knocked out of their comfort zone and start to call or txt more and more often.
 
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