So I meet a 8.5 Friday night. We hit it off but im playing guitar at the bonfire we are at so she doesn't get too much attention. Later that night she txtd me from a buddys phone and i got her number. Saturday we went and hung out and just had real good chemistry and only made out. She texted me that for her to go that far on a first date was very uncharacteristic and she didnt want to be THAT girl. But in the same txt tells me that she is still attracted and if given the chance she knows she would do it again. WTF? Shes 20....prob has something to do with it right? Then she txt me yesterday that she hopes i have a good day.....really? Is she playing games? Im going with a bunch of friends and her to a concert Sat. night....any ideas on how to play it?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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