"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Games Anyone?

Landon

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So I meet a 8.5 Friday night. We hit it off but im playing guitar at the bonfire we are at so she doesn't get too much attention. Later that night she txtd me from a buddys phone and i got her number. Saturday we went and hung out and just had real good chemistry and only made out. She texted me that for her to go that far on a first date was very uncharacteristic and she didnt want to be THAT girl. But in the same txt tells me that she is still attracted and if given the chance she knows she would do it again. WTF? Shes 20....prob has something to do with it right? Then she txt me yesterday that she hopes i have a good day.....really? Is she playing games? Im going with a bunch of friends and her to a concert Sat. night....any ideas on how to play it?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tiguere

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She doesn't wanna be seen as a hoe. Show her you aren't the judgemental type.
 

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so do i keep pursuing her....like she will txt hope you have a good day, or about how a certain music artist reminds me of her.....but do i need to back off a little or keep going full throttle? All my lady friends have said to ignore her completly?:trouble:
 

PRMoon

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Keep it light boss. If she's txting you and you feel like you must txt her back just do one or two word txt at most. I wouldn't contact her at all personally. In a situation like this I'd wager the girl wants to gauge how much attention you're willing to give her so she knows how much power she has. For me the response to that test of power is always you have little or none. More often then not with little or no contact they'll get knocked out of their comfort zone and start to call or txt more and more often.
 
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