So I meet a 8.5 Friday night. We hit it off but im playing guitar at the bonfire we are at so she doesn't get too much attention. Later that night she txtd me from a buddys phone and i got her number. Saturday we went and hung out and just had real good chemistry and only made out. She texted me that for her to go that far on a first date was very uncharacteristic and she didnt want to be THAT girl. But in the same txt tells me that she is still attracted and if given the chance she knows she would do it again. WTF? Shes 20....prob has something to do with it right? Then she txt me yesterday that she hopes i have a good day.....really? Is she playing games? Im going with a bunch of friends and her to a concert Sat. night....any ideas on how to play it?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Games Anyone?
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