"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Game on a subconsious level?

TheWolfMan

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Don't really have a problem, just a topic for discussion. Anybody else realize that women or plates come in waves? I mean like you can be spinning multiple plates at one period of time and then have nothing going another time. I feel like the whole idea of putting out a scarcity mentally and being confident happens on a subconscious level as I seem to think I don't do anything differently as far as game goes. I believe we unwittingly give off confidence and other sex appeal factors at a subconscious level when we are spinning plates, therefore plate spinning becomes easier? Direct correlation? Sorry if this was confusing, just trying to dissect this sh!t on an almost scientific level to see what you guys think, or if you have experienced this. I mean without changing your game or approach, you seem to be killing it with women one minute and not have a single plate the next minute.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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plate's_empty

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Yes, it's hard to hide desperation. If you're naturally ignoring a girl because you already have a full set of plates, she may sense this. Rather than trying to ignore her where something subtle may give you away.

Body language is key here.....
 

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I've never been a plate guy, but I had gotten mad attention from women up to a week* after a ONS. They can smell the "freshly laid" vibe.

Then the week expires and they start ignoring me again lol.

*The effect is strongest right away like the same night or the next day or so.
 

Peaks&Valleys

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peaks & valleys
 

Sneevox

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Peaks&Valleys said:
peaks & valleys

Nice.
lol.
I see why you made that username... life is a bunch of peaks and valleys. Don't get egotistical during the peaks and don't beat your own ass during the valleys and you'll make it out alive.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Peaks&Valleys

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Sneevox said:
Nice.
lol.
I see why you made that username... life is a bunch of peaks and valleys. Don't get egotistical during the peaks and don't beat your own ass during the valleys and you'll make it out alive.
It's feast or fathom with me my man. Sometimes everything's rolling and you're on top of the world. Then totally out of the blue all your plates start falling off and breaking. Think it's got something to do with the moon and the tides :)
 
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