"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Game on a subconsious level?

TheWolfMan

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Don't really have a problem, just a topic for discussion. Anybody else realize that women or plates come in waves? I mean like you can be spinning multiple plates at one period of time and then have nothing going another time. I feel like the whole idea of putting out a scarcity mentally and being confident happens on a subconscious level as I seem to think I don't do anything differently as far as game goes. I believe we unwittingly give off confidence and other sex appeal factors at a subconscious level when we are spinning plates, therefore plate spinning becomes easier? Direct correlation? Sorry if this was confusing, just trying to dissect this sh!t on an almost scientific level to see what you guys think, or if you have experienced this. I mean without changing your game or approach, you seem to be killing it with women one minute and not have a single plate the next minute.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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plate's_empty

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Yes, it's hard to hide desperation. If you're naturally ignoring a girl because you already have a full set of plates, she may sense this. Rather than trying to ignore her where something subtle may give you away.

Body language is key here.....
 

Mike32ct

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I've never been a plate guy, but I had gotten mad attention from women up to a week* after a ONS. They can smell the "freshly laid" vibe.

Then the week expires and they start ignoring me again lol.

*The effect is strongest right away like the same night or the next day or so.
 

Peaks&Valleys

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peaks & valleys
 

Sneevox

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Peaks&Valleys said:
peaks & valleys

Nice.
lol.
I see why you made that username... life is a bunch of peaks and valleys. Don't get egotistical during the peaks and don't beat your own ass during the valleys and you'll make it out alive.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Peaks&Valleys

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Sneevox said:
Nice.
lol.
I see why you made that username... life is a bunch of peaks and valleys. Don't get egotistical during the peaks and don't beat your own ass during the valleys and you'll make it out alive.
It's feast or fathom with me my man. Sometimes everything's rolling and you're on top of the world. Then totally out of the blue all your plates start falling off and breaking. Think it's got something to do with the moon and the tides :)
 
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