"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't really have a problem, just a topic for discussion. Anybody else realize that women or plates come in waves? I mean like you can be spinning multiple plates at one period of time and then have nothing going another time. I feel like the whole idea of putting out a scarcity mentally and being confident happens on a subconscious level as I seem to think I don't do anything differently as far as game goes. I believe we unwittingly give off confidence and other sex appeal factors at a subconscious level when we are spinning plates, therefore plate spinning becomes easier? Direct correlation? Sorry if this was confusing, just trying to dissect this sh!t on an almost scientific level to see what you guys think, or if you have experienced this. I mean without changing your game or approach, you seem to be killing it with women one minute and not have a single plate the next minute.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yes, it's hard to hide desperation. If you're naturally ignoring a girl because you already have a full set of plates, she may sense this. Rather than trying to ignore her where something subtle may give you away.

Body language is key here.....
 
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I've never been a plate guy, but I had gotten mad attention from women up to a week* after a ONS. They can smell the "freshly laid" vibe.

Then the week expires and they start ignoring me again lol.

*The effect is strongest right away like the same night or the next day or so.
 
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peaks & valleys
 
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Peaks&Valleys said:
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Nice.
lol.
I see why you made that username... life is a bunch of peaks and valleys. Don't get egotistical during the peaks and don't beat your own ass during the valleys and you'll make it out alive.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sneevox said:
Nice.
lol.
I see why you made that username... life is a bunch of peaks and valleys. Don't get egotistical during the peaks and don't beat your own ass during the valleys and you'll make it out alive.
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It's feast or fathom with me my man. Sometimes everything's rolling and you're on top of the world. Then totally out of the blue all your plates start falling off and breaking. Think it's got something to do with the moon and the tides :)
 
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