"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Game on a subconsious level?

TheWolfMan

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Don't really have a problem, just a topic for discussion. Anybody else realize that women or plates come in waves? I mean like you can be spinning multiple plates at one period of time and then have nothing going another time. I feel like the whole idea of putting out a scarcity mentally and being confident happens on a subconscious level as I seem to think I don't do anything differently as far as game goes. I believe we unwittingly give off confidence and other sex appeal factors at a subconscious level when we are spinning plates, therefore plate spinning becomes easier? Direct correlation? Sorry if this was confusing, just trying to dissect this sh!t on an almost scientific level to see what you guys think, or if you have experienced this. I mean without changing your game or approach, you seem to be killing it with women one minute and not have a single plate the next minute.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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plate's_empty

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Yes, it's hard to hide desperation. If you're naturally ignoring a girl because you already have a full set of plates, she may sense this. Rather than trying to ignore her where something subtle may give you away.

Body language is key here.....
 

Mike32ct

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I've never been a plate guy, but I had gotten mad attention from women up to a week* after a ONS. They can smell the "freshly laid" vibe.

Then the week expires and they start ignoring me again lol.

*The effect is strongest right away like the same night or the next day or so.
 

Peaks&Valleys

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peaks & valleys
 

Sneevox

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Peaks&Valleys said:
peaks & valleys

Nice.
lol.
I see why you made that username... life is a bunch of peaks and valleys. Don't get egotistical during the peaks and don't beat your own ass during the valleys and you'll make it out alive.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Peaks&Valleys

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Sneevox said:
Nice.
lol.
I see why you made that username... life is a bunch of peaks and valleys. Don't get egotistical during the peaks and don't beat your own ass during the valleys and you'll make it out alive.
It's feast or fathom with me my man. Sometimes everything's rolling and you're on top of the world. Then totally out of the blue all your plates start falling off and breaking. Think it's got something to do with the moon and the tides :)
 
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