"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
fvck china
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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my club game sucks... all of these are from daygameSharinganUser said:DId you meet them in a club? None of the club women I've met in China wanted to get serious.
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Fu'ck yeah, bro. Club game is whole other animal.dj_china said:my club game sucks... all of these are from daygame
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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dj_china said:my club game sucks... all of these are from daygame
I don't speak Chinese so I only game at night. My buddy slept with a mongolian pole dancer and she wanted to bring him to mongolia to meet his parents so she could save face about being divorced. I don't think most chinese women want to be in a relationship to be in love, most of them want it so they have some security and money coming in.
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I didn't have this issue, in spite of the fact that a couple were pretty conservative or introverted in the beginning. Maybe because they knew I was in China for only one month or because there emotions were running high at the time (My party = instant social status).
Just keep on sarging bro!! You're doing pretty well already :rockon:
wow mongolian pole dancer. must've been smokin hahaSharinganUser said:I don't speak Chinese so I only game at night. My buddy slept with a mongolian pole dancer and she wanted to bring him to mongolia to meet his parents so she could save face about being divorced. I don't think most chinese women want to be in a relationship to be in love, most of them want it so they have some security and money coming in.
I think I'm a little more charitable to the chinese... definitely there are gold diggers, but I think the ones who want to be in a relationship -- its not because they want to be in love, but just want to be "in a relationship"
that in itself is kindof like a status thing in China
a lot of girls I know are in long distance relationships for months at a time. kindof sucks, but hey, you get to say "I have a boyfriend" and I think that's what drives them a lot of the time. cultural differences. ugh
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dj_china said:wow mongolian pole dancer. must've been smokin haha
I think I'm a little more charitable to the chinese... definitely there are gold diggers, but I think the ones who want to be in a relationship -- its not because they want to be in love, but just want to be "in a relationship"
that in itself is kindof like a status thing in China
a lot of girls I know are in long distance relationships for months at a time. kindof sucks, but hey, you get to say "I have a boyfriend" and I think that's what drives them a lot of the time. cultural differences. ugh
Just about every woman I've met has a BF or a husband even. That doesn't mean they aren't available. Most of the women will up grade in a heart beat if it means more money, more security, ect...
And the pole dancer wasn't that hot.
haha ok i was trying to social proof you there but i guess not...:moon:SharinganUser said:Just about every woman I've met has a BF or a husband even. That doesn't mean they aren't available. Most of the women will up grade in a heart beat if it means more money, more security, ect...
And the pole dancer wasn't that hot.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.