"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
fvck china
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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my club game sucks... all of these are from daygameSharinganUser said:DId you meet them in a club? None of the club women I've met in China wanted to get serious.
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Fu'ck yeah, bro. Club game is whole other animal.dj_china said:my club game sucks... all of these are from daygame
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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dj_china said:my club game sucks... all of these are from daygame
I don't speak Chinese so I only game at night. My buddy slept with a mongolian pole dancer and she wanted to bring him to mongolia to meet his parents so she could save face about being divorced. I don't think most chinese women want to be in a relationship to be in love, most of them want it so they have some security and money coming in.
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I didn't have this issue, in spite of the fact that a couple were pretty conservative or introverted in the beginning. Maybe because they knew I was in China for only one month or because there emotions were running high at the time (My party = instant social status).
Just keep on sarging bro!! You're doing pretty well already :rockon:
wow mongolian pole dancer. must've been smokin hahaSharinganUser said:I don't speak Chinese so I only game at night. My buddy slept with a mongolian pole dancer and she wanted to bring him to mongolia to meet his parents so she could save face about being divorced. I don't think most chinese women want to be in a relationship to be in love, most of them want it so they have some security and money coming in.
I think I'm a little more charitable to the chinese... definitely there are gold diggers, but I think the ones who want to be in a relationship -- its not because they want to be in love, but just want to be "in a relationship"
that in itself is kindof like a status thing in China
a lot of girls I know are in long distance relationships for months at a time. kindof sucks, but hey, you get to say "I have a boyfriend" and I think that's what drives them a lot of the time. cultural differences. ugh
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dj_china said:wow mongolian pole dancer. must've been smokin haha
I think I'm a little more charitable to the chinese... definitely there are gold diggers, but I think the ones who want to be in a relationship -- its not because they want to be in love, but just want to be "in a relationship"
that in itself is kindof like a status thing in China
a lot of girls I know are in long distance relationships for months at a time. kindof sucks, but hey, you get to say "I have a boyfriend" and I think that's what drives them a lot of the time. cultural differences. ugh
Just about every woman I've met has a BF or a husband even. That doesn't mean they aren't available. Most of the women will up grade in a heart beat if it means more money, more security, ect...
And the pole dancer wasn't that hot.
haha ok i was trying to social proof you there but i guess not...:moon:SharinganUser said:Just about every woman I've met has a BF or a husband even. That doesn't mean they aren't available. Most of the women will up grade in a heart beat if it means more money, more security, ect...
And the pole dancer wasn't that hot.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.