i need advice on this one this is a spot i've been in before im in a what was a good relationship till last night her friend said someone told my gf i dont like her now i do like her and i wonna keep her but she seems to believe this other person b/c shes been acting like she doesn't wonna talk to in fact we had plans for tn which are pretty much dead i've told her what this person said is b/s but i wonna know how to keep her hte other thing is she wont tell who this person is
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
nubian-knight
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Don't understand what your trying to say lol
DonGorgon
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IT SEEMS COMPLICATED TO YOU BUT SIMPLY The vail is no longer over your girl's eyes i.e. she is not in love with you anymore AND is now finding reasons to leave... The odd details are just symantics.... YOU NEED TO DUMP HER NOW BEFORE SHE DUMPS YOU TOMORROW.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
nubian-knight
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if your gf really believes that her friend said u don't like he and is that easily convinced i don't think shes worth pursuing cuz if something based on nothing like that is causing problems already i don't see u 2 working out
so in order words tell her PEACE OUT
so in order words tell her PEACE OUT
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^^^She has started the break up process.. and probably has the next dude lined up..
i dont know wtf is goin right now the relationship relatively new and the **** only started last night and im not ready to abondon ship yet she wants to dump me thats fine but i cant leave myself without atleast doing something to try and make it right b/c shes alot of fun if u no wat i mean
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hell695 said:i dont know wtf is goin right now the relationship relatively new and the **** only started last night and im not ready to abondon ship yet she wants to dump me thats fine but i cant leave myself without atleast doing something to try and make it right b/c shes alot of fun if u no wat i mean
talk to her n try n get her to open up
tell her u think u 2 can be good n make it clear u wana work it out
also make it clear ur not sticking around if she keeps being a indesicive nuisance
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.