i need advice on this one this is a spot i've been in before im in a what was a good relationship till last night her friend said someone told my gf i dont like her now i do like her and i wonna keep her but she seems to believe this other person b/c shes been acting like she doesn't wonna talk to in fact we had plans for tn which are pretty much dead i've told her what this person said is b/s but i wonna know how to keep her hte other thing is she wont tell who this person is
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
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nubian-knight
Don Juan
Don't understand what your trying to say lol
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IT SEEMS COMPLICATED TO YOU BUT SIMPLY The vail is no longer over your girl's eyes i.e. she is not in love with you anymore AND is now finding reasons to leave... The odd details are just symantics.... YOU NEED TO DUMP HER NOW BEFORE SHE DUMPS YOU TOMORROW.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
nubian-knight
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if your gf really believes that her friend said u don't like he and is that easily convinced i don't think shes worth pursuing cuz if something based on nothing like that is causing problems already i don't see u 2 working out
so in order words tell her PEACE OUT
so in order words tell her PEACE OUT
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^^^She has started the break up process.. and probably has the next dude lined up..
i dont know wtf is goin right now the relationship relatively new and the **** only started last night and im not ready to abondon ship yet she wants to dump me thats fine but i cant leave myself without atleast doing something to try and make it right b/c shes alot of fun if u no wat i mean
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hell695 said:i dont know wtf is goin right now the relationship relatively new and the **** only started last night and im not ready to abondon ship yet she wants to dump me thats fine but i cant leave myself without atleast doing something to try and make it right b/c shes alot of fun if u no wat i mean
talk to her n try n get her to open up
tell her u think u 2 can be good n make it clear u wana work it out
also make it clear ur not sticking around if she keeps being a indesicive nuisance
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.