"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Funny-Playful or Mysterious-Badass?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
You have have your own style that matches you. For ex., I am a crazy, fun dude around people and like to mess around, tease and get bored real quick.
Whats your personality like? Use that to amplify the result.
There is no answer for this question. There are just too many variables. You also have to consider looks, confidence, social status etc.Spade said:which ones better?
If they were both running game on the same girl, which will the girl be most attracted too? and which will she sleep and open up first?
If what you're trying to get at is what game works better with women (funny-playful or mysterious-badass) you are going about it the wrong way. It's not about trying to be one dimensional and just 1 type of game but incorporating different strategies for your game for different situations. There really isn't 1 type of game that works best with women because of so many variables involved.
You can be funny-playful with women on certain occasions (for example when you got them in your apartment and are trying to kino them) and still be a mysterious-badass guy (by not having a facebook, giving away too much about yourself unless she earns it etc)
It's about incorporating all these traits and making yourself a more attractive guy and less plain. Being funny and playful when the ocasion calls for it but also showing you have an "edge" and showing your badass self on other ocasions if they call for it.
What we do know for sure is women hate nice guys, boring guys, dull guys, plain guys.
Deadly_Ripped
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If you're not a badass, then pretending to be a badass won't get you very far with women. A sense of humor and an aloof nature, however, is easier for someone to develop. Similarly, if you are kind of a badass or dark, then you probably wouldn't want to act cheery and playful.
This question is really all about how you feel inside and how you want to act around others. Women will flock either way once you've mastered great conversation skills and have fully integrated whatever persona you desire into your social life.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Spade said:i always wondered how do badasses build comfort? do they just go to sduction without playfulness and kino?
they open up in private and the girls feel good aobut getting getting to know the "real badass".