"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Funny-Playful or Mysterious-Badass?
- Thread starter Spade
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
You have have your own style that matches you. For ex., I am a crazy, fun dude around people and like to mess around, tease and get bored real quick.
Whats your personality like? Use that to amplify the result.
There is no answer for this question. There are just too many variables. You also have to consider looks, confidence, social status etc.Spade said:which ones better?
If they were both running game on the same girl, which will the girl be most attracted too? and which will she sleep and open up first?
If what you're trying to get at is what game works better with women (funny-playful or mysterious-badass) you are going about it the wrong way. It's not about trying to be one dimensional and just 1 type of game but incorporating different strategies for your game for different situations. There really isn't 1 type of game that works best with women because of so many variables involved.
You can be funny-playful with women on certain occasions (for example when you got them in your apartment and are trying to kino them) and still be a mysterious-badass guy (by not having a facebook, giving away too much about yourself unless she earns it etc)
It's about incorporating all these traits and making yourself a more attractive guy and less plain. Being funny and playful when the ocasion calls for it but also showing you have an "edge" and showing your badass self on other ocasions if they call for it.
What we do know for sure is women hate nice guys, boring guys, dull guys, plain guys.
Deadly_Ripped
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If you're not a badass, then pretending to be a badass won't get you very far with women. A sense of humor and an aloof nature, however, is easier for someone to develop. Similarly, if you are kind of a badass or dark, then you probably wouldn't want to act cheery and playful.
This question is really all about how you feel inside and how you want to act around others. Women will flock either way once you've mastered great conversation skills and have fully integrated whatever persona you desire into your social life.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Spade said:i always wondered how do badasses build comfort? do they just go to sduction without playfulness and kino?
they open up in private and the girls feel good aobut getting getting to know the "real badass".