"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Funny-Playful or Mysterious-Badass?
- Thread starter Spade
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
You have have your own style that matches you. For ex., I am a crazy, fun dude around people and like to mess around, tease and get bored real quick.
Whats your personality like? Use that to amplify the result.
There is no answer for this question. There are just too many variables. You also have to consider looks, confidence, social status etc.Spade said:which ones better?
If they were both running game on the same girl, which will the girl be most attracted too? and which will she sleep and open up first?
If what you're trying to get at is what game works better with women (funny-playful or mysterious-badass) you are going about it the wrong way. It's not about trying to be one dimensional and just 1 type of game but incorporating different strategies for your game for different situations. There really isn't 1 type of game that works best with women because of so many variables involved.
You can be funny-playful with women on certain occasions (for example when you got them in your apartment and are trying to kino them) and still be a mysterious-badass guy (by not having a facebook, giving away too much about yourself unless she earns it etc)
It's about incorporating all these traits and making yourself a more attractive guy and less plain. Being funny and playful when the ocasion calls for it but also showing you have an "edge" and showing your badass self on other ocasions if they call for it.
What we do know for sure is women hate nice guys, boring guys, dull guys, plain guys.
Deadly_Ripped
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If you're not a badass, then pretending to be a badass won't get you very far with women. A sense of humor and an aloof nature, however, is easier for someone to develop. Similarly, if you are kind of a badass or dark, then you probably wouldn't want to act cheery and playful.
This question is really all about how you feel inside and how you want to act around others. Women will flock either way once you've mastered great conversation skills and have fully integrated whatever persona you desire into your social life.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Spade said:i always wondered how do badasses build comfort? do they just go to sduction without playfulness and kino?
they open up in private and the girls feel good aobut getting getting to know the "real badass".