"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Funny-Playful or Mysterious-Badass?
- Thread starter Spade
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
You have have your own style that matches you. For ex., I am a crazy, fun dude around people and like to mess around, tease and get bored real quick.
Whats your personality like? Use that to amplify the result.
There is no answer for this question. There are just too many variables. You also have to consider looks, confidence, social status etc.Spade said:which ones better?
If they were both running game on the same girl, which will the girl be most attracted too? and which will she sleep and open up first?
If what you're trying to get at is what game works better with women (funny-playful or mysterious-badass) you are going about it the wrong way. It's not about trying to be one dimensional and just 1 type of game but incorporating different strategies for your game for different situations. There really isn't 1 type of game that works best with women because of so many variables involved.
You can be funny-playful with women on certain occasions (for example when you got them in your apartment and are trying to kino them) and still be a mysterious-badass guy (by not having a facebook, giving away too much about yourself unless she earns it etc)
It's about incorporating all these traits and making yourself a more attractive guy and less plain. Being funny and playful when the ocasion calls for it but also showing you have an "edge" and showing your badass self on other ocasions if they call for it.
What we do know for sure is women hate nice guys, boring guys, dull guys, plain guys.
Deadly_Ripped
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If you're not a badass, then pretending to be a badass won't get you very far with women. A sense of humor and an aloof nature, however, is easier for someone to develop. Similarly, if you are kind of a badass or dark, then you probably wouldn't want to act cheery and playful.
This question is really all about how you feel inside and how you want to act around others. Women will flock either way once you've mastered great conversation skills and have fully integrated whatever persona you desire into your social life.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Spade said:i always wondered how do badasses build comfort? do they just go to sduction without playfulness and kino?
they open up in private and the girls feel good aobut getting getting to know the "real badass".